This is the task assigned by our oral teacher to say something about my first dating. But unfortunately I have no experience on it, I can just imagine something and search some material to make this article sound really like something. If you have already had such experience, just give me a laughing. If your situation is the same like me, maybe this article can help you to some degree. And may us find our Mr. right soon.
As we all know, dating with some stranger is really a tough thing. We confused at what to say, where to go, which clothed to wear and whether the person is satisfied with me or not. All the things added up really make us tired and bored. Facing some strange guy is so tough even facing the guy I'd like to pursue.(a little strange in this sentence) So, be sure to prepare well is the key to success, or you have to lose your favorite person into other guy's arms.
1 Details decide the success or failure.
First is your manner or we can call it etiquette. Giving the person a smile won't cost you anything. If you are a girl, don't shake hands with the person initiatively. It seems too official.
Second is what to wear. Decent clothing is the best choice. You can wear casually but not the dirty one which will give the person a bad impression.
Third is making up. If you are a beauty, you can choose not to make up very well. But if you are not a beauty, you'd better make up a lot instead of leaving an impolite impression.
Forth is the way to chat. Just say something proper instead of complain or chatter. Be sure to make a balance between the listening and speaking. Prepare some topics can avoid the embarrassing periods. In one word. Be yourself, don't hide yourself too much.
2 dating places
You can choose a park, a romantic street, KTV or Carnival to be a neutral place. If you both are sporting fans, you can go to the gym, bowling center or tennis court. If you want to show your special taste, take him go to a restaurant or see a movie which you like.
If you have a good impression from the person or really want this relationship to go further, you can hold the person's hand to show your good feelings or favor. There's no need to keep conservation if you love him. You can also give him a hint that you want to ask him out soon. While If you feel not very well from the person, maybe a space of 20 centre meters between you is a best room.
Since love is mostly decided by the first dating, we'd better need a good preparation to not let the love slip away.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
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